Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Not in the best of the moods today.
Feeling guilty for so many reasons.

7 comments:

Vikas ( Vicky) said...

gulity.... so sacred word but it always frightens me....

Pavi!!!! said...

When I feel guilty.... this is the saying i remind myself of...

All Humans are like the Moon, they have a dark side to them which they never show to anyone….SO STOP FEELIN GUILTY!!!

Preethi said...

Assumption is the mother of all fuckups!

Pavi!!!! said...

Hmm...I'm not sure if my comment irritated u Preeti n if ur comment is a reponse to mine...Can u pls xplain?

Preethi said...

hey.....no irritation. just that this is the space with absolute freedom. If you read the description of this space you'll know what i'm talking about.
what i'm going to feel at that moment is going to be on the page. so the word 'fuckup' which i'd otherwise not use was used....

both u and vikas seem to be seeing 'guilty' as a very negative word. There is no dark side or anything and there is nothing to get frightened (vikas)
you can feel guilty for getting up late,
you can feel guilty for not having been able to talk to ur friends,
i felt guilty that i'm not able to go to India too see my dad now,
i know he'd appreciate it...
there is nothing sinister here. Everything is not black and white.... not all feelings can be compartmentalised.... not all thoughts have perfect words in the english language. that's it....
assuming something immediately without taking some time to wonder about it does create a lot of fuckups....i used to do that, now i take time before writing or talking.... think about it :)

Pavi!!!! said...

I read the description of the space before i started reading the posts :-)

n yeah...Gulit is an emotion one feels , when they feel they have done something incorrect/wrong rite?..so in that sense it is negative ..
n now as I think more about it, its actually positive...coz guilt implies tht atleast there is a concience tht makes us feel bad, for things we do or don't do ...

n I echo ur thots on not all thoughts/ feelings can be expressed in words!

ceedy said...

well late for the party again - but the face value of what you have written - not in the best of the moods - connotates the reactions from vikas and pavi...

but yeah why is having chocolate a lot of it a "guilty" pleasure or looking at a beautiful girl (aesthetically speaking ;) a guilty vision or avoiding work for something one loves to do a "guilty" offense....always wonder